NORWALK ECONOMIC OPPORTUNITY NOW, Inc.
Retired & Senior Volunteer Program

98 South Main Street
Norwalk, CT  06854-3126
Phone (203) 899-2442
Fax (203) 899-2430
 

 
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RSVP Quarterly - December 2000                                        previous page
Volume 1, No. 1
 

Message from Sarah: 
We're Back! Thanks to Stanley Benham who is kind enough to do the newsletter for us. 
Most of you know by now that we have hired a gentleman to coordinate recruitment for our programs. Norman Coltin started in May and is doing a great job! He's a team player and fits right in at the office. 
RSVP is always working to develop interesting programs that benefit both the community and the volunteers. 
We are in the planning stages of developing a tree program in Norwalk. What this involves just yet we are not sure.  However RSVP will be looking for volunteers who are interested in preserving the nature of their neighborhoods by being tree captains. Sites for new trees must be located and then the new trees that are planted must be watered, fertilized and maintained. We'll let you know when we will kick this off as soon as possible. 
We are also looking for volunteers for the Foot Soldiers program. This involves volunteers tutoring teens from Brien McMahon and Norwalk High. This can be done on a weekly basis at the NEON Adult Learning Center at Ben Franklin. 
We are still looking for folks to assist with the bulk mailings at nonprofits in our area. 
Speaking of the mailing team, we are going to miss Joe Reitano.   He and his wife, Stacia, are relocating to Atlanta to be near one of their sons. We wish them the best and hope they will be happy. 

RSVP also has a web-site. Our address is www.rsvpswct.org. Please take a peek and let us know what you think.

Work-site Profiles: 
Our seven-town area is a better place to live because the Norwalk Senior Center has a program called Kidline. Kidline began in 1994 as a pilot program to reach homebound seniors and "latch-key" children. Gretchen James, the coordinator, also serves on the RSVP Advisory Council. 
When visiting with Gretchen, I discovered that she graduated with a bachelor's degree in social work from Western Connecticut State University in Danbury. Gretchen lives in Milford with her husband. 
For the past year, Gretchen has focused on expanding Kidline, a telephone-mentoring program that matches children and older adults for friendship, support and guidance. 
The program has expanded to Darien, New Canaan, Stamford, Weston, Westport, and Wilton. Volunteers make a commitment to volunteer throughout the school year. They communicate with the children three times a week for fifteen minutes, or as long as they and the children wish. 
Volunteers have to be good listeners, caring and nurturing. They also have to like children.   Training consists of an orientation (one and a half hours) and monthly support meetings (one and a half hours) held during the day.     For those volunteers who are homebound, the training is performed on a one-to-one basis. Spanish speaking volunteers and children are encouraged to participate. 
The volunteers are recognized at the Annual Senior Center recognition event, as well as Kidline's own celebration, that offer the volunteers the opportunity to meet with the children whom they mentor. 
Currently, RSVP has only one volunteer involved with Kidline. This is a great placement and as someone who has been volunteering with children, I can honestly say that they can change your life. Give it a chance to make a difference in a child's life. Call 899-2442 for more information. 
 

Norwalk Museum
Volunteers are needed at the newly opened Norwalk Museum.  The Norwalk Museum has a new curator and she is seeking some help in the afternoons and weekends. Volunteers will greet visitors, give tours, or work in the gift shops. This is a good placement for two volunteers to work together. Please give us a call and we will set up an appointment with the proper people at the museum.

The GRIN Program A Case History 
A number of people have recently inquired about what happens to the clients that take advantage of the GRIN program. Are they re-directed? Were they satisfied with the experience? Etc., etc.  Stu Losen was good enough to write up a few case studies for us. Here is the first one. 
R is 68. A recently retired history professor, mildly depressed, recovered from a recent stroke, hypersensitive to his wife's criticism, he sits around moping all day, always underfoot and in her way.  R felt isolated, friendless and worthless. He'd been a revered academic, and now perceived nothing meaningful in his life. Still fairly articulate, R nevertheless struggled with memory loss and persistent distractibility. He often lost his trend of thought, but then would excuse his momentary lapses and persist in trying to overcome his subsequent confusion by speaking at great length about anything he thought might be relevant to his original idea. Listeners, like his wife, often became impatient and intolerant of his ramblings, and he sensed it with growing discouragement. 
We initially pursued the possibility of counseling for him and his wife, but she refused, insisting it was entirely his problem. Prescribed medication for his depression was recommended and that helped somewhat, but it was his enrollment in a support group called Getting Over the Blues for men and women his age, that ultimately proved most helpful. R, now a year later, has continued in the weekly group meetings and says he looks forward to each meeting for the support and comradeship he sorely missed. The group also encouraged his volunteer involvement (three times per week) at an area nursing home where he goes to meet with groups of older, disabled men to bring them up to date on current events. 
R recently reported that his involvement with those men, who are much more impaired than himself, has proven extremely gratifying and given him his sense of worth. 
 

Tourism
The Connecticut Department of Community and Economic Development and RSVP offer those 55 and over the opportunity to volunteer as travel counselors. This is a four-hour a week commitment at either the Darien or Greenwich Welcome Centers. Darien is year-round and Greenwich is seasonal. There is a generous mileage reimbursement offered.  Last year over 125,000 visitors to the State of Connecticut were served by RSVP of SW CT volunteers.   Training and tours of Connecticut's attractions is offered.  

On-Line Learning Guide
Westport Schools (Local Talent)
Volunteers will have an expertise in a subject area and are willing to be a resource for student researchers in the Westport Public Schools.  

RSVP Mailing Team
If you like to socialize and meet new people while helping out a local nonprofit this may be just the placement for you! Stuff, label, seal, and zip code bulk mailings. The sites change so it's not the same old thing. Go as often as your schedule permits. Lunch is provided if you stay until three. In 1999, the teams processed over 450,000 pieces of mail. 
Share-Food Cooperative Program RSVP is seeking a person to market this program in the community. 
Housing sites such as Roodner Court and Colonial Village are targeted for this marketing effort. This is a four-hour-a-month effort. 
 

Little Known Facts about RSVP of SW CT 
98 Bibs were made and donated to the Lower Fairfield Regional Center by the Wilton Worktable.
125,000 Visitors to Connecticut were assisted by the RSVP Travel Counselors at the Darien and Greenwich Welcome Centers.
62 Blankets were made and donated to Project Linus.
520 Hats, mittens and scarves were made and donated to NEON Headstart last Christmas.
70 Baby quilts were made and donated to Person-to-Person.
22 Clients were assisted and given re-direction by the volunteers in the Guidance for Retirees in Need program.

Some Volunteer Statistics From 1999
90 RSVP volunteers served over 100 hours.
4 RSVP volunteers served over 1,000 hours.
275 RSVP volunteers are over the age of 75.
19 volunteers are over 90.
105 volunteers have been members of RSVP for I 0 years or more.
Norwalk Economic Opportunity Now, Inc. 98 South Main St., Norwalk Ct 06854 

RSVP Advisory Council 
Richard Aime-Chair Volunteer-RSVP/LLI/NCC
Aubrey Blackwell-Vice Chair Chair, Fund Development Committee
Stanley Benham RSVP Volunteer
Ruthie Brown Director, Family Support Center
Evelyn Frazier RSVP Tourism Volunteer
Gretchen James Coordinator, Kidline
Dina Kubelle Assistant Director, NEON
Dr. Stuart Losen Ed/Psych Associates
Mary Wagner Family Council at Honey Hill 

Ex-Officio
Sarah Mann RSVP SW CT Project Director
Donald Nelson President, Clean & Green, Norwalk
Susan Pfister Westport Senior Center  

New Volunteers January-August 

Anna Calo
Jean DiLissio
Shirley English
William Gambino
Lazarus Jones
Marion Knox
Eleanor Kollman
Sylvia Krangel
Rita Livoisi
Myron Maley
Charlotte Malvicini
Palma Manes
Roberta Pennacchio
Peter Payne
Marilyn VanRaalte 
Editor Stanley Benham 

 

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